Have you ever heard of Heifer Project International? They are a really great aid organization. Instead of giving food, they give food- and income-producing animals, as well as training in leadership, community development and environmentally sound farming. One thing I really like about them is their insistence that the gift be passed on. Every family who receives an animal signs a contract to pass on the first female offspring to another family in need, and also agrees to pass on to others the training and skills that they have acquired. Actually, I appreciate all their cornerstone values, but that one always stands out in my mind.
Since my grandparents just celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary, I was looking at some of those lists of the appropriate gifts for each anniversary. I discovered that once you hit the 60th, it’s pretty much diamond from here on out (though platinum appears in a few versions for the 70th). I don’t like diamonds and I know my grandparents don’t have much use for them, so I thought an update was in order.
The Heifersary List
1st – Geese
2nd – Ducks
3rd – Chicks
4th – Honeybees
5th – Rabbits
6th – Trees
10th – Pig
15th – Sheep
20th – Goat
25th – Llama
30th – Water Buffalo
40th – Heifer
50th – The Ark
Naturally, the in-between and 50+ anniversaries can be represented by the appropriate addition. For example, I could give my grandparents a heifer, a goat and some chicks.
So, give it a try. Wouldn’t it be cooler at that 10th anniversary party to be the one who gave a pig instead of something made out of tin?